{"id":318,"date":"2019-07-21T23:26:13","date_gmt":"2019-07-22T03:26:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/360Mediations.com\/en\/?page_id=318"},"modified":"2021-09-11T22:49:40","modified_gmt":"2021-09-12T02:49:40","slug":"the-essential-elements","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.360mediations.com\/en\/the-essential-elements\/","title":{"rendered":"The Essential Elements"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"pl-318\"  class=\"panel-layout\" ><div id=\"pg-318-0\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-318-0-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-318-0-0-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_black-studio-tinymce widget_black_studio_tinymce panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"0\" ><div class=\"textwidget\"><p><div class=\"su-spacer\" style=\"height:7px\"><\/div><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #333333; font-size: 26pt;\">The Seven \"C's\" to Mediation<\/span><\/h1>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pg-318-1\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-318-1-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\" ><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-1-1\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-318-1-1-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_black-studio-tinymce widget_black_studio_tinymce panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"1\" ><div class=\"textwidget\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #6b0b00;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\">C<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">ivility<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #959595; cursor: text; font-family: 'Roboto',sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;\">Everyone is respectful: proceeds on a first name basis, there is no yelling,\u00a0 no use of foul language, and no interruptions when someone is speaking<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-1-2\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-mobile-last\" ><div id=\"panel-318-1-2-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_black-studio-tinymce widget_black_studio_tinymce panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"2\" ><div class=\"textwidget\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #6b0b00;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\">C<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">ongeniality<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #959595; cursor: text; font-family: 'Roboto',sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;\">The lawyers and mediator may be friendly \u2013 this is normal, and not a sign that someone is not fighting for your cause<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-1-3\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\" ><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pg-318-2\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-318-2-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\" ><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-2-1\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-mobile-last\" ><div id=\"panel-318-2-1-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_black-studio-tinymce widget_black_studio_tinymce panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"3\" ><div class=\"textwidget\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #6b0b00;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\">C<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">onfidentiality<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #959595; cursor: text; font-family: 'Roboto',sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;\">Any settlement offer you make during the mediation does not carry over into tomorrow, unless you agree that it does<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #959595; cursor: text; font-family: 'Roboto',sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;\">Also, your private business remains your private business.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #959595; cursor: text; font-family: 'Roboto',sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;\">Even winners can be losers in open court if a judge is critical of the person\u2019s conduct (ie: comments about being a bad business person, or negative comments about a person\u2019s credibility, or negative comments about the conduct of the party)<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-2-2\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\" ><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pg-318-3\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-318-3-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\" ><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-3-1\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-318-3-1-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_black-studio-tinymce widget_black_studio_tinymce panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"4\" ><div class=\"textwidget\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #6b0b00;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\">C<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">andour<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #959595; cursor: text; font-family: 'Roboto',sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;\">You can be open and frank with the Mediator about your goals and objectives<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-3-2\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-mobile-last\" ><div id=\"panel-318-3-2-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_black-studio-tinymce widget_black_studio_tinymce panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"5\" ><div class=\"textwidget\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #6b0b00;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\">C<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">ontrol<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #959595; cursor: text; font-family: 'Roboto',sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;\">You (and the other parties) control the outcome entirely, and not a stranger, whether it be a judge, or a six member jury, or an arbitrator<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-3-3\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\" ><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pg-318-4\"  class=\"panel-grid panel-no-style\" ><div id=\"pgc-318-4-0\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-empty\" ><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-4-1\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell\" ><div id=\"panel-318-4-1-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_black-studio-tinymce widget_black_studio_tinymce panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"6\" ><div class=\"textwidget\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #6b0b00;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\">C<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">ost<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; background-color: #ffffff; color: #959595; cursor: text; font-family: 'Roboto',sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 300; letter-spacing: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: left; text-decoration: none; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; white-space: normal; word-spacing: 0px;\">Mediation is a lot less expensive than a trial<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"pgc-318-4-2\"  class=\"panel-grid-cell panel-grid-cell-mobile-last\" ><div id=\"panel-318-4-2-0\" class=\"so-panel widget widget_black-studio-tinymce widget_black_studio_tinymce panel-first-child panel-last-child\" data-index=\"7\" ><div class=\"textwidget\"><h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #6b0b00;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: xx-large;\">C<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">ompromise<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h6>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"display: inline !important; float: none; 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